Crossdresser chat

Whether you love dressing up yourself or admire those who do, crossdresser chat on Shemales.uk gives you a private, judgement-free place to talk about it. Chat with crossdressers, trans women and admirers from across the UK, share your favourite outfits and fantasies and enjoy conversations that can be as flirty or explicit as you like.

A welcoming place for crossdressers

Many crossdressers keep this side of themselves private, sometimes for years. Finding people who understand can feel like a huge relief. On Shemales.uk you can talk openly about lingerie, heels, make-up and the thrill of dressing up with people who share your interest or love seeing it. Members enjoy crossdresser chat because:

  • There is no judgement. Everyone here gets it.
  • You stay anonymous. Only a nickname, never your real name.
  • It can be supportive or sexy. Or both, depending on the chat.
  • It is private. Every conversation is one-to-one.

Who you will chat with

Our community includes occasional and full-time crossdressers, sissies, trans women and admirers who love a dressed-up partner. Some members are confident and experienced, others are only just starting to explore. Whether you want tips on make-up and outfits, encouragement or a seriously steamy conversation, there is someone here who will enjoy chatting with you.

How crossdresser chat works

  1. Create a free profile with a nickname and, if you like, your femme name.
  2. Say what you enjoy so like-minded members can find you.
  3. Browse members and send a personal message.
  4. Save your favourites and chat whenever you like.

Topics members love

  • Favourite outfits, lingerie and heels.
  • Make-up tips and transformation stories.
  • Role play and dressing-up fantasies.
  • Feminisation and sissy fantasies.
  • Admirers sharing what they find irresistible.

Respect and discretion

Many crossdressers value discretion above all. Never ask for real names or photos showing someone's face, and never share anything someone has sent you. Use the name and pronouns a member uses when dressed. A respectful chat builds trust, and trust is what lets people relax and share their naughtiest fantasies.

More ways to chat

Want things explicit? Visit trans sex chat. Love teasing messages? Try trans sexting. Want an overview? Start with trans chat. Prefer private rooms? See trans chat rooms. Or browse members from Bristol and Brighton.

New to crossdressing?

If you are just starting out, you are in good company. Plenty of members remember their first nervous steps, from buying a first pair of heels to trying make-up for the first time, and many are happy to share tips and encouragement. There is no right or wrong way to explore: go at your own pace, chat with people who make you feel comfortable and enjoy discovering what you love. Telling someone about it for the first time, even anonymously, can feel exciting and freeing.

Private and discreet

Every conversation on Shemales.uk is one-to-one and stays between the two of you. You chat under a nickname, your email address is never shown and messages stay on the site, so you never need to share your phone number. Keep your full name, address and workplace to yourself, and never send money to anyone you chat with. The site is for adults aged 18 and over only.

Frequently asked questions

Do I need to share photos of myself dressed up?

No. Sharing photos is completely up to you. Many members prefer to chat without them.

Is crossdresser chat anonymous?

Yes. Other members only see your nickname and what you choose to share.

Is it free to join?

Yes. Creating a profile and browsing members are free. Read more on our free trans chat page.

Can I chat on my phone?

Yes. The site works in any modern browser on phone, tablet or computer.

Start your crossdresser chat

Ready to talk openly about dressing up? Create your free profile, find like-minded members and send your first message tonight.

New members to chat with

missmcdonald from Solihull,United Kingdom
missmcdonald
I can't help but feel a little bit offended when a lad reads this but doesn't send me anything. I mean, what's stopping you from sending me a message? Am I not that attractive for you? Or maybe you find me a bit intimidating or something.
SolihullSolihull, Solihulllocation_on
Shemale | 50 | Bisexual
live4Dm0ment from Greater London,United Kingdom
live4Dm0ment
I am on the hunt for the lad who is as lustful as me and who has a mind filled with sexy and manky thoughts that would definitely make anyone horny. If you fit the description of the lad I’m looking for, why not stop wasting time and just send me a...
LondonLondon, Greater Londonlocation_on
Shemale | 39 | Bisexual
kissmewild from Bedford,United Kingdom
kissmewild
Grew up reading fairytales and a lot of fictional novels. I think that would explain why I insist on role playing as a form of foreplay and even while shagging, like complete with costumes and character details.
BedfordBedford, Bedfordlocation_on
Shemale | 39 | Gay
better2besingle from City of Stoke-on-Trent,United Kingdom
better2besingle
If there's a lass who enjoys unconventional kind of sex, that's me. I get bored easily when I do the common sexual things repeatedly. Trying out new and a bit unique ways of teasing, flirting, and shagging makes me more excited than just doing the no...
Stoke-on-TrentStoke-on-Trent, City of Stoke-on-Trentlocation_on
Shemale | 43 | Bisexual
LuxuryLover from Birmingham,United Kingdom
LuxuryLover
Been single for some time now and I think it's bloody time I do something about it. No more sitting around and feeling sorry for myself. I have a great personality and hung like a horse too. I can make you laugh during the day and moan all night long...
BirminghamBirmingham, Birminghamlocation_on
Shemale | 41 | Bisexual
l0velybo0ty from Birmingham,United Kingdom
l0velybo0ty
Just because I'm looking for a gentleman, doesn't mean I don't want him to spank me. The kind of guy I plan on spending the night with has to know when to treat me like a lady, and how to make me his whore.
BirminghamBirmingham, Birminghamlocation_on
Shemale | 52 | Gay
anonymousrider from City of Salford,United Kingdom
anonymousrider
I may not be the perfect lady for you, but I am sure as hell that I can make our moments together worthwhile. I am quite a talkative lass. Don't worry about running out of topics to talk about because I have a lot of things to share with you. Send me...
EcclesEccles, City of Salfordlocation_on
Shemale | 39 | Gay
CleoTheGreat from Greater London,United Kingdom
CleoTheGreat
Baring every inch of my body and letting my mates watch me as I pleasure myself is the ultimate fantasy. I'd love to give them a show that they're never going to forget. And maybe let them have a touch or two if they behave themselves.
LondonLondon, Greater Londonlocation_on
Shemale | 36
alwaysnaughty01 from Greater London,United Kingdom
alwaysnaughty01
Empathetic but I tend to have emotional outbursts when I am furious. Whenever I am annoyed or pissed off, I would end up shagging the first willing bloke I could find. If not, I would grab my biggest dildo and fuck myself on it. I find that sex is th...
LondonLondon, Greater Londonlocation_on
Shemale | 39 | Gay
DazedEvelyn from North Somerset,United Kingdom
DazedEvelyn
Has strong interest in the secrets to having a good sex life, which is why I've been spending time flirting with nice lads from all walks of life for me to find the answer. Luckily, I've discovered some great answers to my questions, but still I'd ap...
Weston-super-MareWeston-super-Ma..., North Somersetlocation_on
Shemale | 45 | Bisexual
AForAlluring from Bury,United Kingdom
AForAlluring
I've been called an odd duck a few times, but I take it as a compliment. I know that I look like a lass but don't have the naughty bits of one. Doesn't mean that I don't know how to please a man in the bedroom. I'm even confident to say that most hav...
BuryBury, Burylocation_on
Shemale | 39 | Bisexual
DivaEsmae from The City of Brighton and Hove,United Kingdom
DivaEsmae
I am quite worried that most men will find me not attractive enough to have boners. I am quite insecure as to what I look like. If you can get past my not-so-attractive appearance, I assure you that you will get to experience what can possibly be the...
HoveHove, The City of Brighton and Hovelocation_on
Shemale | 39
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